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The quality of your relationship determines the quality of your life.

I t's high time you changed yours.

I’ve had the opportunity to work with many struggling couples. They describe having painful, frustrating, sad and emotionally draining lives. Not only are they no longer in love, they don’t even like each other. All they see are their partners’ negative qualities and often assume the worst. Some of them have had traumatizing experiences together such as the loss of a child or infidelity. Others are trapped in destructive communication patterns. Once couples get stuck in this pattern it’s almost impossible to get out of it without professional help. Couples come to me desperately seeking relief from their partner’s criticism, coldness, contempt and anger. Others just want to be seen, heard, understood and loved. Marriage should provide us with a safe and loving environment. It should be a kind, secure bond which helps us feel good about ourselves and our place in the world. For couples in conflict, it is the polar opposite.

By completing my program, these couples save their relationships. They master their mindsets and take responsibility for their own beliefs, thoughts and actions. They become a team. Fighting FOR each other rather than against each other. Dislike turns to like, which blossoms into love, allowing passion and intimacy to return to their relationship. These couples rebuild trust, reconfirm their love, transform their communication skills, and breathe security and intimacy back into their relationship. They fall back in love with each other and their lives.

This is where Relationship Reconstruction comes in. Imagine what will change once you:

01

Assess Where You Are

To reach your destination, you have to know your starting point. The first step is to assess the current state of your relationship and identify your strengths and challenges. This will give us clear directives for our work together so that we don’t waste any time or effort working on things that don’t need to be fixed.

02

Master Your Mindset

Einstein once said, “You can’t solve problems from the same level of thinking that created them.” Your current thinking got you here. It’s going to take expanding and changing your current way of thinking to get you to where you want to go next. This means shifting your mindset by challenging your thinking, overcoming limiting beliefs and releasing any unhelpful assumptions. Most importantly in this step you’ll take 100% responsibility for your thoughts, and come to the understanding that your thoughts determine your feelings and your feelings determine your outcomes. Learning how your mind works & how this affects your relationships is a fundamental & powerful first step toward making lasting change. Work on your mindset together and watch the magic start to unfold in your relationship.

03

Manage Your Conflicts

Conflict is a normal part of every relationship. Choosing a partner essentially means choosing a set of problems because no matter who you choose there’s no such thing as perfection. Every couple has disagreements. Even the happy ones! Almost 70% of a couple’s problems are perpetual. They come up over and over again without ever being solved. You’ll learn how to identify which of your conflicts are gridlocked and turn your arguments into constructive dialog. I’ll equip you with several tools which will enable you to calmly and rationally discuss issues and solve conflicts.

04

Rebuild Your Friendship

After being stuck in a destructive communication cycle, you’re likely to have hurt one another. Over time this causes you to view each other in a negative way. If you look for your partner’s negative traits, that’s what you’ll find. That reinforces yet more resentment and contempt. Struggling couples don’t often like each other. There is little in the way of admiration or fondness because all they hear, see and feel are negative thoughts and feelings. The opposite is also true. If you look for your partner’s positive attributes, the more you’ll notice them, and the more fondness and admiration you’ll feel. Through mindset mastery, intentional thinking, and reconnection you truly can begin to like each other again!

05

Reconnect Emotionally

When was the last time you had a meaningful conversation with your partner? Struggling couples often avoid talking about their feelings or even small things in order to avoid conflict. In other instances, after years of being hurt by their partner they no longer trust them enough to be vulnerable. Both situations make emotional connection nearly impossible. Throughout the program you’ll learn to rebuild your trust and create a safe space for vulnerability and emotional connection which paves the way for friendship and intimacy.

06

Improve Your Communication

After years of conflict, communication can be challenging. You’ve likely been communicating with each other using contempt, criticism and defensiveness. Or perhaps you’ve been refusing to communicate at all. In this program, you’ll discover how to spot your destructive communication patterns, stop them in their tracks, and use healthier methods that’ll end in win-win solutions rather than destructive blow-ups or someone walking away.

07

Reignite Your Passion

It’s probably no surprise that according to John Gottman, a lack of connection leads to a lack of sex and intimacy. In his book “The Science of Trust”, he writes that the couples who reported having good sex lives “consistently mentioned: maintaing a close, connected and trusting friendship and making sex a priority in their lives”. Through thick and thin, they turn towards each other in life and in the bedroom. But, he says that passion doesn’t happen automatically in long term relationships. It takes a secure emotional connection for couples to have amazing, passionate sex.

Not only is all of this possible, I’ve created the solution to help get you there 10x faster than outdated traditional methods.

In just 12 weeks:

Using the best tools in psychology, mindset and relationship modalities, you’ll completely master your mindset, reprogram your brain, and rewrite your old stories that have subconsciously kept you stuck. You’ll discover how to finally stop your destructive communication patterns and sabotaging behaviors within your relationship so that you can get back on track.

This will allow you to:

  • Stop feeling angry, confused, frustrated and lonely as you rekindle your friendship and reconfirm your love.
  • Feel supported and valued as you reconnect with your partner both emotionally and physically.
  • Create a deeply loving, healthy and happy relationship. Life will feel lighter and fun again.
  • Find peace and contentment as you let go of the negativity, anxiety and frustration your fighting was causing.
  • Uplevel all other areas of your life as your healthy and happy relationship grounds and supports you.

At the end of 12 weeks, your relationship will be unrecognizable and will be completely transformed from the inside out.

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“Jump in with both feet and trust the process. It takes work and effort, but the rewards and massive changes in your relationship will be well worth it! The skills that you will learn will last a lifetime and will improve all of the relationships in your life. Amanda is a truly amazing, and insightful coach who will expertly help you change your relationship for the better. It sure changed ours!!”

Lucy and Matt Morris

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